writing a column is the hardest thing i've ever done. maybe an exaggeration, but still...i want to write something that's interesting and articulate, refreshing but relatable. and to top all, i have no idea who my audience is.

yesterday, had dinner with beka. she made chicken topped with oregano & mushroom and steamed broccoli. very legit, her cooking endeavors are admirable. anyway, found that i relate to her better than expected though i guess when talk turns to "don't feel like i relate to other girls" with other girls, it always make me wonder, have we come together out of default?

but it's okay because i belive that appreciation can come later. and overall it was much needed, girls are tougher...it's harder to ignore their advice/admonishment. yup.